5 Statements Never to Make to a Bully
Bullies watch you for tells to see if you’ll be an easy target. They hope you’ll make a mistake so … Continue reading 5 Statements Never to Make to a Bully
Category: Conflict & communications
Negotiating a Raise with a Manager You Don’t Trust
Question: I want a raise and better benefits. I know if I job hunt, I’ll find an employer who’ll pay … Continue reading Negotiating a Raise with a Manager You Don’t Trust
Is It Time You Acted?
Question: Last week, two employees who work for another supervisor came to me for help. Their supervisor, “Mitch,” has a … Continue reading Is It Time You Acted?
Handling Employee One-Uppers and Hotheads
Question: “Eric” loves one-upping other employees in meetings. While he sometimes does this to me, by loudly posing contrary opinions, … Continue reading Handling Employee One-Uppers and Hotheads
Love your job but hate your boss?
Question: I love my job but hate working for an arrogant, self-centered boss. He thinks because everyone immediately does what … Continue reading Love your job but hate your boss?
Workplace Quicksand: Don’t Step Into It
We don’t always understand why we react to some people, nor they to us. Or why otherwise talented employees and … Continue reading Workplace Quicksand: Don’t Step Into It
Win a Promotion, Lose a Friend
Question: When I started with my current company, I met and bonded with a coworker. We were hired at the … Continue reading Win a Promotion, Lose a Friend
Telling Your Bosses They’re the Reason Employees Quit
Question: How do I tell our managing partner that he and the other partners are the main reason employees quit? … Continue reading Telling Your Bosses They’re the Reason Employees Quit
Nuke Fear: An Extra Christmas Gift You Owe Yourself
Perhaps fear has been a slithering snake whispering “danger” in your ear. Possibly fear has stopped you from swallowing words … Continue reading Nuke Fear: An Extra Christmas Gift You Owe Yourself
Office Politics 201: Let Go of What You Can’t Control & Guard Your Heart
Question: I knew I might regret telling my manager the truth. I just didn’t know how much. The problem is … Continue reading Office Politics 201: Let Go of What You Can’t Control & Guard Your Heart