Those targeted by bullies often ask, “why me?” “Do I have a target on my forehead?” I know the feeling. … Continue reading Targeted by Bullies: Why They Pick You & 4 Concrete Steps to Becoming Bully-free Forever
Question: I know others say they work for a difficult boss but mine stands out. You could have been writing … Continue reading Director Has Ice Water in Her Veins
Unsuspecting supervisor falls into the drama triangle; employee exacts revenge. Continue reading The Politics of Manipulation: Employee “Fan” Turns on You
Question submitted to “Ask a Coach”: I started a new job six weeks ago. From day one, my three female … Continue reading Who Needs to Take Action When Your New Colleagues Make It Clear You Are Not Welcome
It’s quicksand and seductive–the drama triangle hooks most people. Even if you haven’t heard of the drama triangle, you’ve experienced … Continue reading The Drama Triangle Quicksand
The Drama Triangle in life When we go about our lives, particularly if we live active lives, we run into … Continue reading Drama Triangle Collision & Escape
It happened You thought it only happened in the movies or bad spy novels. Now, it’s happened to you. Unknown … Continue reading If You’re Cyber-bullied, Here’s What To Do
What makes a bully? Many readers of Beating the Workplace Bully have asked me, “what makes a bully?” As a … Continue reading What makes a bully & can they change?
After Anne landed what she thought was a dream job, she quickly bonded with a charismatic co-worker, Karla. When Karla … Continue reading Turning the Tables on Workplace Bullies
Question: I work for a subsidiary of a company headquartered in New York. I do a good job, but fear … Continue reading Save Your Career From a Vindictive Manager’s Targeting: Here’s How