My Boss Lied and I’m Paying the Career Price


Ten months ago, I visited the emergency room with heart palpitations. I was told they were probably harmless but likely triggered by stress. At my wife’s request, I found a new job.

When I resigned, my boss told me he couldn’t afford to lose me and begged me to stay with the company. He promised me more time off and a different, less stressful position as soon as he was able to hire one additional person I could train.

I decided to stay with my company.

My boss’s promises never came through. Although he’d told me I could have more time off, whenever I mentioned taking a vacation, he told me it wasn’t a good time.

He did hire an additional person three months later but didn’t ask the new hire to take any of my duties. I realized I’d been a fool. I called the company that had formerly offered me a job, but learned I’d burned a bridge when I rescinded my acceptance of their offer.

I’m now home, recovering from a heart attack.

My boss chatted with my wife, who doesn’t want me to go back to work for him, and he told her it was “just as well” because he “couldn’t hold my job open” until I fully recovered.

I don’t know what my prospects are for getting hired by anyone at this point and my medical insurance is tied to my job.

Do I have any recourse?



You’re probably covered by the Americans with Disabilities Act.You may be covered under the Family Medical and Leave Act. If either of the above proves true, your employer may need to accommodate you by providing you additional leave and maintaining your insurance.

You may also be able to sue your employer for intentional misrepresentation. Based on what you’ve said, your boss has violated the covenant of good faith and fair dealing.

I’d suggest you look up Cocchiara v. Lithia Motors, Inc. When a car salesman had a heart attack, and found a new job at a newspaper, his car dealership manager promised him a less stressful corporate job.

Based on this offer, the salesman decided to stay at the dealership. After the corporate position failed to materialize, the salesman sued for fraudulent misrepresentation. He won.

Although you may worry that you can’t prove your boss’s misrepresentations, you have tangentially corroborating evidence, based on your discussions with your wife, along with your turn down of an already accepted job offer.

If the situation is as your reported it, I’d like to help you find an attorney.

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2 thoughts on “My Boss Lied and I’m Paying the Career Price

  1. Things like this solidify my opinion that accepting counteroffers of any kind from your existing employer is not generally a good idea, especially in circumstances like this one. It is good to know that a similar case was won in a lawsuit, and I figured he had some options with ADA. This kind of bad faith dealing is something a few employers think is perfectly ok and they can get away with. The attitude of this mans boss when the heart attack happened showed his true colors, and he deserves a trip to court.

  2. This sucks. My recommendation would be to go ahead with the lawsuit. This boss will keep on lying and will retaliate. The poster may be looking for a new job and another career.

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